I had the skills. Rewiring my beliefs took years.
Execution was my superpower, and it got me promoted to Director before thirty. VP was different. The rewrite that changed everything about how I operated.
From early on, execution was my superpower. I could design, code, ship, and explain it all in normal-people speak. It's what got me promoted to Director before thirty.
But VP was different.
I thought I understood my job: product vision and strategy. It's not like I consciously thought, "execution is all I'm good for." But execution was second nature, and it continued to get rewarded.
I mistook strategy for prioritizing the requests coming my way, from the CEO, stakeholders, customers. If the CEO really pushed, I delivered it. Even when it didn't feel right.
Because the alternative was conflict, and conflict was scary.
The rewrite
My real value was my point of view, honed from years of launching products and a pattern-matching instinct no one else had. I saw things others couldn't.
This wasn't just extra credit. It was the whole job.
That aha changed everything about how I operated. And it's one of the three most common beliefs I see holding product leaders back.
If this job feels harder than it should, the problem may not be your skills. Get clear on what's really expected of great product leaders, then start replacing those hidden beliefs with practical action to sharpen your strategy, in days not years.
Related: There's a big difference between respecting the CEO and unintentionally deferring to them.
This post originally appeared on LinkedIn.